As for the Lord, his way is perfect. 2 Samuel 22:31
Do you groan at the thought of “having” to read your bible, or “having” to pray, or feeling obliged to help others?
Sometimes we need to look at why God tells us to do these things. God loves us, he’s not out to make your life a misery, he does everything out of love. So much so that Jesus died for us, it says so in the bible (John 3:16). Jesus came that we might have life, and life to the full, it says so in the bible (John 10:10). We are told that whoever Christ sets free is free indeed, it says that in the bible too! (John 8:36)
So we are offered unfailing love, life to the full, and ultimate freedom…. and the way that we get this is by living our lives as God intended!
God’s desire is for us to grow in faith, to trust in Him, to know we are secure in Him – not for his own benefit but for ours, in order to help us overcome out fears and to live our lives in freedom and security. He knows what will give us the most joyful and fulfilling lives, because he created us in the first place!
Why does God want us to read the bible?
He’s not going to give you a bible exam when you get to heaven- he’s not impressed with your head-knowledge and I doubt you’ll get extra brownie points for quoting bible verses off the top of your head. He wants us to read the bible so that we will grow and not easily be shaken! He wants to reveal to us through his word, his love and his faithfulness. It’s for us to gain an understanding of how amazing He is, so that we can trust in him more, let go of our insecurities and stand firm in the face of attack or difficulties.
He wants us to know the accounts of different people’s lives in the bible so we can see how he’s helped his people since the beginning of time, and how he will still do that for us today. The New Testament refers to so many people from the Old Testament (e.g. check out Hebrews 11), and we are even more blessed to have the Old & the New Testament to read.
When we read the word Jesus’ salvation is also revealed to us and we see that we don’t have to strive to please him, because we are no longer condemned but are set free. God doesn’t tell us that we have to read the bible to be saved, but when we are saved we should be longing to know more about this amazing God who saved us! By knowing the bible we can stand firm, not allowing the lies of the devil to trick us through our lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6) Check out how Jesus used scripture to stand up to the devil in Matt 4:1-11. As we learn through reading the bible, we can walk forward knowing that God is with us, and we can trust God more as we see his provision and guidance over the lives of the many people across so many generations before us. The bible is not about learning God’s rules, it’s about learning who God is, who we are in Him, and how he cares for and works through his people.
Why does God want us to pray?
God doesn’t want us to pray so he feels loved or talked to! Its for OUR benefit, He wants us not to worry (check out Matt 6:25-34), just one of the many verses about not worrying!), he wants to carry our burdens (1 Peter 5:7) and to reassure us that we are in his hands, like so many others before him (Isaiah 41:10). He wants us to pray for others, so that through our care for others we can also experience his love and compassionate heart. God wants us to be in relationship with him, not through his own need, but because he knows that’s how we can live life to the fullest. It’s not a law that we have to keep, it’s a desire he wants us to have and to cultivate because it’s the best way to live our lives without worry, to learn to trust in him and to see him working in power in our lives. God wants us to be connected with him so he can guide us, the enemy wants us busy and distracted so that we can’t hear from God and are robbed of our peace. The bible says if we pray about everything we will gain God’s peace (Phillipians 4:6-7)
So if you’re praying to tick the box, then you’re not going to get the fullness of what God is offering you through the opportunity to pray. Look at it through new eyes, ask God to help you, and see each challenge, trouble, blessing, decision, quiet time, as an opportunity! A chance to include God, to ask for his help, to learn to trust him and to know that you are growing and becoming more free by handing things over to the One who is in control, so you can get on with living today in peace, knowing God’s got tomorrow in his hands.
Why does God want us to serve?
Again, It’s not about earning brownie points, it’s about our over-flow of love to God. If we are doing things to earn our way into God’s good books, then we’re not going to get anywhere other than exhausted(!), as we would be relying on ourselves and our own merits, and not on the death & resurrection of Jesus. There’s nothing more you can do to please God, so don’t let that be your motivation for serving.
God wants us to serve others because it helps us to be selfless people and we are happier when we are not so worried about our selves! Serving others helps us to see God’s love and compassion, it helps us to take our eyes off our own worries and fix them on Jesus instead. In doing this we gain lives that are more full of joy, fulfillment and deeper meaning. Even though us serving others, helps them and shows them God’s love, God also uses this to bless us and grow us and make us more joyful people. I read a news article recently that said that people who do voluntary work and help the poor/sick/vulnerable tend to be the most content with their lives.
So in summary, You don’t have to do anything. You don’t have to pray, you don’t have to read your bible and you don’t have to serve others. When you want to pray, you’ll be blessed by doing so, you’ll see God moving and your faith will grow. When you want to read your bible in order to know God more, you will gain understanding and become stronger by doing so. When your desire is to serve others out of an overflow of love for God, and for your neighbour, then you will be blessed as you put others before you, it will become a joy rather than a burden, even more so as you see people responding to the love of God that shines through you!
God’s plan is for you to live life your to the full, in freedom, knowing he’s right there with you as you do the things he has set before you, not because you have to, but because you get to! It’s an opportunity, an invitation to live an amazing, joyful, fulfilling life with God!
Isn’t God’s way perfect?